First of all, Arch has very few use cases imo for the average person, Debian is extremely stable but most of its problems come from outdated packages, maybe try fedora or something similar? just a suggestion.
Also, buggy is the wrong word, i’m being pedantic, but the problems you’re experiencing are very real, but most likely not from bugs.
I will say its interesting how a lot of tech people (myself included) tend to gaslight ourselves into believing stuff is easy, like the fediverse and linux, sure it makes sense to you but it likely doesn’t make sense to the average tiktok/bluesky user.
The wallpaper fucks.