• Eyedust@lemmy.world
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      8 months ago

      None taken, friend. I understand that, but I still think about these things a lot. I’m still young enough where I could have a happy accident, even if we’re not trying. My mind is always on how to be a good father if it did.

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          8 months ago

          That’s hopefully the plan if that time does come. Two of my three sisters lived at home and single while raising their first kids, so I tried to help them out as much as I could. I wouldn’t be completely blind going in. I’d be fretting a lot at first, though. The world would seem much more dangerous with a kid to worry about.

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        8 months ago

        Not having the Futurama brain slug that comes with having a child makes you a note objective and better observer of parenting in my opinion.

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          8 months ago

          It also often makes people prone to establishing rules and lines in the sand that they’ll never adhere to because they underestimate the will and ingenuity of young humans lol

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      8 months ago

      Yeah! How dare someone without a child share their opinion and relevant life experiences. That dick should know we don’t care for his type here!

      /s in case it’s needed