• ZoopZeZoop@lemmy.world
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    Yes, all genitals seem weird to show people. I don’t even show them to my parents. I tried not to take them at all, and instead tried to take a few with angles that obscured any private areas. I think my parents have seen a couple of those, but I don’t even send them.

    Perhaps the comic is from the mindset 40 years ago. I could easily see parents of that era doing this and thinking it was fine.

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      6 months ago

      At first I thought you were talking about your own genitals. It really confused me when you wrote about not taking them. Or only at angles.

      I was like, was there a choice? Could I have chosen to have no genitals? Or ones with different angles?

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      6 months ago

      I think home photography was still pretty new 30-40 years ago, might be why some families were weirdly oversharing with baby photos? Idk.

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        I can’t say world wide, but in the U.S., home photography was not new 30-40 years ago. I was a kid 30 year ago and I had real camera and various disposable ones over time. Maybe home videography was becoming more common 30-40 years ago, but photography had been around.

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        I think it’s more that adults sexualizing children wasn’t considered a frequent risk, people didn’t think anyone they knew would look at babies that way. Gen X parents really shifted a lot in terms of culture in the US, under their generation child sexual abuse cases have dropped significantly, and that’s adjusting to unreported numbers.

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      6 months ago

      I was wondering why you are showing your nudes to your parents and then I realized you are talking about your own kids