If the topic was about equatorial bulge, and it got into the various algorithms to calculate the distance between two points on our planet, might have been in danger of having are really good discussion.

But the semantics on black holes vs other celestial objects?! Nah … that’s just silly nonsense. Like discussing the weather or the colour of the sky.

The test is, at any point are we in danger of learning something useful? And if not, the OP is just blowing air up our bums.