Not at all! I used to wait tables, and I always appreciated it when people did that. It shows that they care about helping to clear the table and make the process smoother for the staff. It also gives us a little head start when we come to clear the dishes. Of course, it’s important not to stack them too high or in a way that makes it hard to carry, but a little effort to tidy up is always appreciated!

All advice I give is advice I should take, but don’t

It definitely sounds like a job change is a good idea if you’re feeling like the environment is holding you back or just not a good fit for your skills and values. I’m actually in a similar boat and actively exploring new opportunities as well. It’s tough when you can’t make the changes that would improve things for everyone. Keep pushing for what you know is right, but also keep your options open and look for a place where you can grow and make a real impact.