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Cake day: October 8th, 2023

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  • If it’s changing, you might want to get a brain-scan, immediately.

    No, it isn’t normal ( not for me, anyhow ), to the guy who said it is normal.

    It’s not an ear thing, it is an auditory-processing thing, so it’s your brain that’s doing it.

    The question is why it is doing it.

    Perhaps it’s just fuzzy wiring, as most such cases likely are.

    ( synaesthesia is a case of weird wiring, and I’ve got that, but not in the normal way, not senses blurring into each-other, but rather my non-visual cognition being a kind of “blur” to those senses, so they mesh oddly )

    But if it begins changing in either intensity or character, get a scan.

    ( I’m a braindamage survivor, and it takes decades to adapt to braindamage: prevention/avoidance is better than hating one’s life for decades, while being bullied by all who reject that it could still validly be a problem, and hold that one ought either force oneself into being an “acceptable” drugged psychiatric-zombie, and not “pretend” to be getting better, or one ought be able to be acceptable-pretence, just like Valid People™ are. )

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  • I’ve been told that to start a fight in Francophones, just demand to know whether grapefruit ( pamplemousse, iirc ), is male or female…

    : P

    The book “The Alphabet Versus The Goddess” by Leonard Shlain, makes the point that women’s-rights simply don’t progress as quickly, in countries which have gendered languages…

    So, Anglo cultures pushed women’s-rights, whereas Latin cultures … won’t, don’t, drag their heels, etc…

    That book is now a couple ?decades? old?

    It’s still true.

    Conditioning an entire population’s System-1 ( Daniel Kahneman’s “Thinking Fast & Slow”, the System-1 is the default-instinct & the trained-now-automatic-expertise system, it also is the system that is both addiction & prejudice ) into gendering everything, automatically, may well prevent equal-validity from ever having place…

    Mind you, I now want to see which Nordic/Scandi languages are gendered, & which Middle-East languages are gendered, to see if that holds in those parts of the world, not just in the Americas…

    … digging …

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_in_Danish_and_Swedish

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grammatical_gender

    ( that isn’t a quick read… may come back to it some day… )

    Bingo!

    “The grammatical gender of nouns is one of two: a noun may be masculine or it may be feminine, and there is no neutral option. Moreover, masculinity is the default grammatical gender in Arabic and a word does not have to have anything special in order to reflect this. Femininity, on the other hand, is not default and a noun would have to have something special to reflect this gender in Arabic.”

    from

    https://www.learnarabiconline.com/gender/

    So, there is ZERO hope of equal-validity in Arabic culture, because the language programs Arabic people’s System-1 into 2 exclusive validity-categories, with male being inherently more-valid, by established language-habit.

    What about Hebrew?

    https://www.timesofisrael.com/in-an-increasingly-nonbinary-world-is-gendered-hebrew-willing-to-adapt/

    No wonder women can’t get equal-validity in Jewish culture…

    ( I read a Jewess’s writing ~ Nobody EVERY celebrated the birth of a Jewish girl: only boys are celebrated ~ … which explains the damage in the stereotypical “Jewish mother”, a woman whose validity has been contempted by all in her culture, until the damage is her most defining feature… )

    So, it looks like equal-rights/equal-validity for women is … baseless, in some/many cultures…

    Interesting, but depressing.

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