All VWs are in some part a hoopty. I don’t hate the brand, though it’s one of the few I don’t recommend to people who don’t like turning wrenches. So many electrical gremlins and other weird mechanical quirks. Usually not enough to stop them running, but definitely enough to make them a hoopty.
My dad is genX and uses it the same way. I have explained it to him multiple times that it’s like sighing at someone.