Here’s the secret no one tells you and you have to learn for yourself. There is never a good time to have kids. Either you want them or you don’t. If you want them you make it work. I have 3 and would have happily had 20. As soon as you have one your life is fucked anyways lol.
Bingo. I will say my mum absolutely hates how liberal I am with swears in my house and around my kids. “It’s not how I raised you”
I repeatedly tell her we all swear. I can’t put the genie back in the bottle. What I can do is provide my kids a safe space and teach them how to understand context around swearing and when it’s acceptable.
Edit - I don’t understand why some people are so puritanical over words.