This just reminded me of something I saw the other day. Walked past the same guy both directions on a quick errand and he had a bunch of passports laid out on the sidewalk. I didn’t stop to inquire, but it seemed pretty clear to me what was going on.
what’s that from
Requiem for a Dream (2000). A harsh, but enlightening movie about addiction. One of those you can watch once and need not ever again.
Ayys to ayys
I watched it on acid because I thought it was just some drug movie so good to watch while tripping right? I had to go sit on a bench in the park for a good hour at like 3am after I finished.
Seems you came out on top of the situation.
Great movie, but also fuck that movie.
Haven’t watched it in forever for obvious reasons, but I recognized it right away.
I had a friend who would watch this movie over and over. She said it was her “favorite movie”
I later found she was a little messed up in the head.
Hope they’re ok.
I hope so too
We stopped talking after she got herself stranded in a different city to manufacture a big crisis where people had to rescue her from south central LA at 2AM. She said it was a mistake but we later overheard her bragging about how she did it on purpose to get attention.
Jokes on him I’m immune to validation
You are, and we’re very proud of you for being so resilient 😘
I’ve received so much that I’ve built up natural immunity. They hyped me up and now I regularly fail expectations, and when I do I cannot be consoled.
So yeah, the comic is right: external validation can fuck one up.
That sounds less like validation, and more like praise. Validation comes without expectations. You are valued. Your existence matters. You are okay, and we like you. Its nice to have you around. You cannot fail to live up to this; its an intrinsic value you have (perhaps up to the point where your crimes exceed in to the unforgivable, but for the sake of argument, I’ll just assume you’re not a serial killer or whatever).
Well, I’m sure you and they meant it well but they would say “you’re good, take your time, we like you the way you are” and now I cannot get anything done or take meaningful steps to improve my lifestyle.
I have the opposite problem where I’ve received zero validation and just assume anyone even attempting it is just fucking with me and can be ignored or treated as a joke
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