Interpret ‘hardest’ however suits you. Look forward to your answers!

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    7 months ago

    conflict-avoidance often leads to lying, and lying will lead to greater conflict. The truth will set you free.

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    7 months ago

    Hard work does not always lead to success. Most of the time, it just leads to more work.

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          At my current job, people keep remarking how fast I unload a truck.

          I just laugh to myself. I’m not fast - I just work at a steady pace and utilize efficient methods.

          I know and have know plenty of people that can move faster than me but its almost always at the expense of their quality.

          I just see no reason to be ‘the fastest gun in the west’ if you can’t hit the broadside of a barn.

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            Same but loading instead.

            I was just thinking today about how I keep bitching in my head about the number, and then realize I run it all day no problem.

            Just gotta hit that flow.

            The fact that it’s hot probably helps as well, the inside of a trailer gets hot even with 2’ diameter fans, you have to learn to be efficient.

            I’m so glad I started over winter, it gave me plenty of time to start to figure out timing and pacing.

            Plus y’know the unreal amount of money it pays for work that isn’t even that hard once you’ve built the muscles.

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              Plus y’know the unreal amount of money it pays for work that isn’t even that hard once you’ve built the muscles.

              Don’t sell yourself short. Pay isn’t about how hard your work is. It’s about how much money the company makes off of you and how quickly they can replace you.

              This was obvious during the pandemic when all the “low skill” jobs hiked their wages. It turned out most office jobs were not as important as retail work, so lots of people in retail got raises for the same work.

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      Learned that the hard way. Within less than a week went from happily living in the house that I had grown up in, that I was renting from my father and that I was planning to eventually buy or inherit to having to look for an apartment because he sold it. The worst thing? That he never gave me a reason or even acknowledged how much he had hurt me. Quite the opposite, he later asked me to help the new owners set up their tv as if it was nothing.

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    Nothing matters, but neither does that fact.

    Growing up in a population with lots of spirituality, it felt like a requirement to have some higher meaning to your life. And me deciding one-by-one that I didn’t believe in the spiritual stuff, it felt like I was missing that higher meaning.

    What I didn’t realize for too long, is that if I don’t believe in the spiritual stuff, then I necessarily also don’t believe that the spiritual people have a higher meaning to their life. And that it’s not a requirement. A regular meaning or even no meaning is just as fine.

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      Life having no meaning or purpose can be scary. Living in an artificial bubble of pretend is scarier.

      While I’m sure there are many genuinely religious or spiritual people, the vast majority just mindlessly follow what they have been told.

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    HR doesn’t work for you and is never on your side. They exist to cover your employer’s ass.

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    As the government gradually erodes away our rights, at least we still have the right to wipe our asses with pinecones.

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    Be patient with a baby/child and not getting frustration… They may not always do what you want and it’s important to understand that it’s not on purpose, they don’t know any better (literally).

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      6 months ago

      Humans seem to aim more to oppress each other and make the world worse for their descendants than the opposite, overall.

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    7 months ago

    It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life.

    Captain Jean-Luc Picard

    You can do everything right and still lose, still face heart break, and still face setbacks.

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      6 months ago

      To this day, that is one of my favorite fictional quotes of all time. It’s something that for years every now and again I have to remind myself of, since our modern world focuses so extremely on success in all ways at all costs.

      It’s kinda scary actually…