makeasnek@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 6 months agoPeople younger than 30, what advice would you give to people over 30?message-squaremessage-square115fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squarePeople younger than 30, what advice would you give to people over 30?makeasnek@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 6 months agomessage-square115fedilink
minus-squareintensely_human@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up0·6 months agoYou can also love the parts you’re going to change, as you change them. You don’t have to turn off the love to do surgery.
minus-squarecaptainlezbian@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·6 months agoThat’s very true. I routinely change the parts of me I love. I try to make them better. I’m a kind and loving person, but I’m trying to change that from a selfless form to a self preserving form. To know my limits and stop pouring from an empty cup.
You can also love the parts you’re going to change, as you change them. You don’t have to turn off the love to do surgery.
That’s very true. I routinely change the parts of me I love. I try to make them better. I’m a kind and loving person, but I’m trying to change that from a selfless form to a self preserving form. To know my limits and stop pouring from an empty cup.