Yeah the interesting thing is the boy part in femboy doesnt bother me but i just dont find twinks hot for example. Somehow when my brain says a femboy and he still looks a bit boyish its okay with it but when i see a twink my brain just says “ewww”(in a sense of attraction of course, i have nothing against twinks). If i struggle this much with my pretty standard preferences i cant even imagine what gay people go through and trans people especially who will eternally struggle with body image issues… please just be nice to them.