🎶all i want for Christmasssss…is youuuuuuuuu🎶

The ‘do you mind’ question a great example of why many neurodivergent people have such a hard time in social settings, keeping track of all of the contradictory social expectations that don’t make sense is tiring and not everyone is consistent.

Yes! Thank you very much. It’s at least a triple-effect because (1) we get confused about what the response means so we have to focus on solving the riddle, (2) solving the riddle consumes more mental energy so we have less in reserve, and (3) we miss out on everything that occured while we were figuring out the riddle so we have to catch up when we already run slower.

Thanks for the help! I can understand it retrospect, but in the moment, I will be unsure and request confirmation. It’s just how it is 🤷

What does that mean about your preference with the use of “do you mind”-like questions?

You host a server from your own computer at home?

I dont think I’ve ever looked at them

Mannnnn, I would be the same way. That whole seeing people cut open is hard enough. I can’t imagine seeing someone I care about anesthetized, cut open, and then their insides. I rather continue my delusion that their insides look like a mix of their outsides and their personality.

Pedants: He asked if she minded. She responded saying, “Sure thing,” which is an affirmative response, meaning that she did mind. He still attempted to use the bathroom despite her saying she was uncomfortable with that.

I have difficulty with interactions in which people use “do you mind” that I have to be extra clear. Anyone else?

AI was a mistake

Bro Brogan

Yeah, they look almost the same. I can’t remember the last time I got an update and noticed it.

Oh no! I’m sorry that you’re in that position. Maybe you can find an avenue to discuss them with someone? I read (actually heard) the book The Body Keeps the Score. Even if you repress the memories or think you’ve moved on, that stuff is in there affecting everything, whether you’re aware of it or not.

Everyone else: 😬

Thank you

Why does that happen? Is the pipe to the bathroom wider than the kitchen sink?

Yep! When I want to shower, I run the hot water in the sink at the same time. It speeds it up by almost half.

Cool! I’m good with the way it is now since I’m used to it. It’s not a big deal. I know it wasn’t for me specifically, but I appreciate the recommendation.

That I’m autistic and signs of psychological abuse.

Nice! Maybe the right one could be Anne Hathanear since the hat is near her.

Another concept if you would like to actualize it:

Anne Hathaway

• Anne in a field on clear pathway

Anne Hathnoway

• Anne trapped in a cage or within 4 walls without a pathway

Would this be one of those

chmod ./*.sh 

commands?

omg, lol! 😂

I will never be this clever.