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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Please tell me you’re joking or just a troll.

    Where are you that everybody knows everybody else, including randoms at a bar or out on the street?

    From the vibe in this thread this is likely to get me bombed with downvotes, but the stakes are too high to take a gamble on whether a guy is “just intimidating” or a real threat to your safety. If a guy can’t take no for an answer in a bar chances are good he’s not going to take no in other situations either. And if I’m already uncomfortable, I’m not going to offer to make physical contact in the hopes the guy is just awkward.

    Accept the fact that they’re not into you and move on. If you can’t, or won’t, you’re part of the problem.