I keep hearing about how you shouldn’t laugh over your own jokes but when I watch a video or listen to a podcast, I find it much more authentic and likable when they laugh over their own jokes in a conversation. You know, vibes.

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    22 days ago

    I think I depends on the laugh for me. Like I don’t mind a haha this is a joke kind of laugh. But a haha omg I am the funniest person alive type of laugh would be met with some ridicule.

    Hard to I explain the difference in text, but hopefully you get the gist!

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    22 days ago

    You’re telling the joke because you find it funny, it’s so fucking weird that people seem to not understand that.

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    21 days ago

    The only time it can get annoying is if it disrupts the telling of the story multiple times, but I’m also impatient in general

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    I probably said the joke because I thought it was funny and so it’s really difficult not to laugh and I don’t care what anyone thinks because I’m an idiot

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    21 days ago

    My coworker has that kind of sense of humor where he always says the obvious joke you’re hoping nobody will make. Then he laughs, and for some reason, everyone else does.

    Also, whenever he helps someone and they thank him, he says, “That will be 10 dollars,” and then laughs about his joke.

    The reason i hate it is this: He’s a lazy, quiet-quitting asshole who everyone likes. I, on the other hand, work my butt off. I appreciate a witty, clever sense of humor. However, I’m socially awkward, so nobody likes me!

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        21 days ago

        Doing the least amount possible to keep a job puts pressure on coworkers to take up the slack. I work in an ER, not an office. When someone is in the bathroom texting, more than they are out on the floor helping its shitty, yes.

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    Fuck that. You should or shouldn’t do whatever you want. I laugh at my own jokes all the time, even when I am alone, or haven’t said the joke out loud. People find it much more off-putting if you just randomly start laughing.

    Anyone who has a problem with someone laughing at their own jokes either has trauma or is an asshole not worth anyone’s time.

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    I am indifferent to it because i think it is just logical that people laugh about their own jokes. They have a thought that makes them laugh so they want to share it.

    Why should I share a joke that doesn’t make me laught?

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    21 days ago

    Not laughing at your own joke is only a requirement for dry humour. I guess some people only like dry humour so they generalise this but most people like all kinds of jokes

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    22 days ago

    I used to have a college professor who would always laugh at his own jokes. Always. His class only laughed maybe half the time. I didn’t mind much because he was a cool guy in general.

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    22 days ago

    It depends on the joke: most are funny regardless, but for some jokes a straight delivery is part of the humor.

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    22 days ago

    As long as they’re not obnoxiously loud and saying something that’s actually funny, I think it’s completely normal. People usually say funny things that they find funny so it would be natural for them to laugh a little.

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      21 days ago

      I have a guy at my work who does this, he half shouts some unfunny thing like “Are you watching porn on your computer?” Then laughs really loudly while everyone else is silent.

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    22 days ago

    Humor is difficult.

    It’s tough when it’s actually a bad joke or they are telling it badly, but they find it funny.

    If it’s a genuinely funny situation / retelling, both of you laughing about the same thing and also about how the person in question is struggling to breathe because they have to laugh so much, that’s funny.

    But it really really really depends.