• Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    Oh yeah, I totally get that it’s rough to not feel desired. You deserve to feel attractive. Ideally, everyone would be viewed as sexy when and only when they themselves feel like showing off, but that’s a tough ideal to achieve.

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      4 days ago

      I don’t get it. It really doesn’t matter if someone views someone else as sexy. It’s just a thought and last I checked, mind reading hadn’t been invented yet.

      Obviously, doing anything beyond that is very rude but you weren’t talking about that so what do you mean?