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    who’s out there comparing their dicks to other dudes to know if they’re below or above average

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        someone should tell them it’s gay to think about other men’s dicks

        /s, but their reaction would be funny

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      Back when the internet sucked, I was young and insecure. So I just asked the girls I slept with how I stacked up against the other guys.

      It’s amazing how being young and good looking can make up for being creepy and weird.

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        29 days ago

        being young and good looking can make up for being creepy and weird

        sounds dope, can’t relate

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      30 days ago

      The same people comparing their cars, bank accounts, houses, even their dogs and schools their children go to. to decide who is ““alpha”” and who is poor. Capitalist religion-induced issues.

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          Yes, but you didnt have status anxiety (i.e. if you can become anything you want if you work hard enough, why aren’t you ““alpha”” yet?) and the prosperity gospel: “you deserve to be poor because you don’t hustle enough at the altar of crapitalism”.

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              But in Calvinism you couldn’t do anything about it, in the prosperity gospel, it is your fault, because you don’t belive enough, so you should try harder.

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        Ngl, I frankly kinda doubt that who owns the means of production has any bearing on an individual’s self-consciousness regarding their penis size

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          Do you think the same about makeup? It is so easy to play with men’s insecurities too…

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            I don’t, no, not really. Make up is heavily advertised, and makeup companies have a vested interest in stoking those insecurities to increase their sales. On the dick-size side of things, you have a few surgeons I guess? Some scammy mobile game ads? But the vast, vast majority of people who aren’t fuck-it rich just live with it, the only viable market for that shit is other capitalists, which makes me inclined to think that dick-size insecurities are much more organic.

            Hypothesis: if we abolish capitalism and make the transition to socialism and communism, people will still be self conscious about their dick-size, because this particular self-consciousness probably pre-dates society itself

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              Communism failed horribly, don’t put words in my mouth. Conspicuous consumption, planned obsolescence, manufactured demand, etc is taking longer, but it will fail too eventually.

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                Mutual, I didn’t think or mean to imply that you thought communism would solve penis disphoria, you could replace the word “communism” with any other system you like in that sentence, I was just trying to illustrate that the roots of being self-conscious of ones penis size likely have more primal causes than capitalism or any other economic system.